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After all, that’s what most turns heterosexual men on. I know for a fact that he’s straight now because when we interact, we don’t delve upon those days of mutual gratification. The corollary implication is that lesbian/gay couples have less of a "battle." Because they are members of the same gender, they are more likely to appreciate lovers' feelings, including feelings about sex.
But is that really true?
And the sex questions represented only a small fraction of the total survey, which dealt with social support, so participants had no idea they were participating in a "sex survey."
But the survey also has weaknesses: Compared with the total population, participants were more white (91%) and more college-educated (53%).
As a result, the findings cannot be considered definitive.
different men’s sex lives are based on their sexuality.
This study involved 3,916 gay and heterosexual men in relationships who were matched on several demographic characteristics, including age, ethnicity, relationship length, education level, and whether or not they had children. All you need to do is walk into a bar and flex your pecs and a dozen bottoms will throw themselves at you’” [!] (p.
This question is difficult to answer because there’s not a lot of research out there on this subject, and the studies that are available have some serious limitations. But such a straightforward evolutionary rationale can hardly be applied to gay men. But as I’ll be demonstrating, the major (and little recognized) similarities between them ultimately suggest that a gay’s “sexual psyche” is much more complementary to a heterosexual male’s than contrasting to it.
As in other posts in this 12-part series on human sexual desire (of which this is # 9), most of my points will be based on Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam’s groundbreaking book A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World’s Largest Experiment [based on voluminous Internet research] Reveals About Human Desire (2011).
And I don’t mean straight in just a dude-bro way; these men are actually not attracted to men on an emotional level. "All groups displayed very similar sexual repertoires." The only difference was that gay men were more into anal play. Whereas gay men reported more behaviors centering around specific sex acts (like watching porn together and acting out a fantasy), heterosexual men reported more acts centering around building intimacy (like going on a date night or trading massages).
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“But what,” these two authors ask, “about psychological cues?” Do gays’ predilections match up with straight males’ here, too—or are they more aligned with females’? Moreover, just as straights reveal a penchant for BBWs (“big, beautiful women”), so do gays show a strong interest in Bears—hairy, older, oversized gay men, who are yet warm and accessible.
He said there are several reasons why men who call themselves straight do this. And it does appear that to be sexually turned on, the gay brain may be structured to search for masculinity cues quite as psychological as physical.
As Ogas and Gaddam speculate about the gay sexual psyche:
“It might be that by the time males are born, a binary ‘gender cue’ in their brain software gets set to target either masculinity or femininity.
The sex questions were only in reference to one’s “primary” partner. Some men do it for money (called gay for pay).
One of my earliest experiences was chilling with my childhood buddy, playing video games, banging hot wheels into each other, and borrowing 10 rupees from our parents to go surfing at a cyber cafe. Some men suffer from homosexual obsessive compulsive disorder which is really just OCD attached to the worry that you might be homosexual.”
Kort also claims that gay men are more willing to engage in fantasy play, verbal play, and various sexual acts and fantasies that many women are uncomfortable with or disgusted by.
So while we may argue that these people who call themselves straight and still find themselves on Grindr at midnight are actually spineless and lack courage, they are probably doing so in clear conscience as a way of survival. Although this may be true of some gays, just how do we explain the copious evidence that they’re, if anything, more interested in masculinity than straight males are?—and that generally the more masculine (i.e., less feminine) the male, the more they’re attracted to him?
We obviously didn’t think too much about it. Many of these two authors’ findings are controversial—counter to mainstream assumptions and beliefs.