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Some guys are no fuss and just go all in and clean up afterwards. Be OK with Messy
Well, there’s no getting around it…well, yes….but no…sex can get messy. FIRST GAY EXPERIENCES WITH COUSIN
“When I was 18-years old, my cousin Nick stopped by our family’s house. That’s usually penis ejaculation, or both people orgasming at the same time, right at the end (very hard to make happen in real life!).
AFTER A FEW DRINKS
“I was 21-years old and spent most of the summer working construction to make extra money for college. Communication
Often, queer sex gets depicted through a heterosexual male gaze. Don’t regret it either.”
-Ricky/40-Something Straight guy
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The next thing I knew, we were going down on each other.
It only happened once, and we never talked about it again.”
-Nick/38 Straight Man
2. Not that I was anything to talk about because I mostly sat on the bench. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-016-0769-4Share this:
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“When the dick is inserted it’s best to contract your anal passage or push outwards – don’t clench.
It happened a few more times that summer – to the point where all one of us would have to do is say ‘utility room’ and the other guy knew what time it was.
When summer was over, he got transferred to another building. Some guys only like receiving oral. That’s when me and Dale started talking about 69 and what that might be like. This is usually straight sex, but this ‘script’ also infiltrates queer sex too: kissing, followed by touching, fingering or a handjob, then maybe oral, going down on them or giving them a blowjob, and finally penetrative sex (usually penis-in-vagina).
That’s when we swapped head in the parking lot.
I doubt he would identify as gay because he was married with a little kid at the time. And if I want to be rimmed, I feel like I 100 percent have to douche.”
Still, Zane points out that if you always douched before bottoming, you’d never have spontaneous anal.
“There are times I’ve really wanted to bottom but didn’t douche [beforehand], so I just let them know I might not be the cleanest down there,” he says. You shouldn’t rate your performance or make any decisions about your sexuality based on how you did the first time around.
Be open and honest about what you want.
From time to time, we would end up in my garage when my parents weren’t home and mess around. Sex should be fun!
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