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Identifying a good Dom isn't going to happen in the supermarket (though…it has been known), and not everyone can get to fetish and kink clubs regularly. Recon exists so that you can master your fetish evolution, meet guys and try out the things you crave – so use us. In 1998, Lucas opened his own production company, Lucas Entertainment, in New York City.

Every guy has different needs and wants, and these points might not all apply to you.

**For the purposes of this article, we'll refer to active and passive roles as Dom and sub**

1. They are a good basis, though, so keep them in mind when you're on your hunt.

3. You don't need to be 100% into the same things – sometimes the most fun can be found when you or a good Dom pushes you to try something new – but usually it's a good indicator.

It's always a good idea to keep your Recon profile updated when you discover a taste for new things. A respectful Daddy Dom will prioritise your comfort and not pressure you into any activities you're uncomfortable with.

Observe their consistency in communication and actions. Search for someone who shares the same kinks.

A real Daddy Dom will prioritise your comfort and boundaries.

While providing guidance, a true Daddy Dom will encourage your personal growth and independence.

A real Daddy Dom understands the role-play nature of the dynamic and doesn't confuse it with real parenting.

They will respect and support your limits, both physical and emotional.

Many Littles appreciate the emotional support and nurturing provided by their Daddy Doms, which can create a strong sense of security.

Engaging in role-play allows for creative exploration of fantasies and desires within a safe environment.

Clear Roles and Structure

The dynamic provides clear roles and structure, which can be comforting and help reduce anxiety.

The power exchange can lead to a deep sense of connection and intimacy between the partners.

Outside of the BDSM community, the dynamic might be misunderstood as actual parent-child relationships, leading to judgement or discomfort.

While consensual, the power imbalance can sometimes lead to issues if not managed carefully or if boundaries are crossed.

Stigma and Discrimination

There can be stigma associated with BDSM relationships, including DDLG dynamics, leading to challenges in sharing this aspect of one's life.

In some cases, there might be concerns about becoming overly dependent on the Daddy Dom for emotional well-being.

Remember, experiences in the DDLG dynamic can vary greatly from person to person.

Guide to Finding the Right Daddy Dom.

A Daddy Dom embodies the role of a paternal figure within a relationship, often displaying traits of protectiveness and firmness, while also exhibiting affection and understanding. MIchael Lucas started Lucas Distribution, Inc. in 2004 and LucasBlog.com in 2005.

A good Daddy Dom should prioritise open communication and seek mutual agreement on activities.

A Daddy Dom should take their responsibilities seriously, providing emotional support, guidance, and creating a safe environment for the Little.

Patience is essential in a Daddy Dom. They should understand that the Little might need time to open up and express their desires.

Understanding of the Dynamic

An understanding of the DDLG dynamic is crucial.

In which case, don't be shy, get it all out there and get yourself started. What's more, by stating your own preferences, you'll increase your chances of being approached by a Dom looking for a sub like you. Additionally, basing his company in New York City, as opposed to the more traditional Los Angeles, enabled Lucas to showcase the diversity of types and ethnicities found nowhere else.

The Daddy Dom should be aware of the role-play, the emotional needs, and the power exchange inherent in this relationship.

Empathy helps the Daddy Dom connect emotionally with the Little and understand their feelings and desires.

How a Little Can Vet a Potential Daddy Dom.

Vetting a potential Daddy Dom is crucial to ensure a safe and fulfilling relationship:

Engage in honest conversations about expectations, boundaries, and desires.

This first production sparked the Michael Lucas "renegade" vision that is indelibly New York.

A healthy bet is to find someone who's as bothered about you after the play as they are about you during it.